Per usual, Valentine’s Day causes everyone to reflect on love, at least a little bit.. so in the spirit of February, I figured, why not do a reading reflecting on just that – LOVE?
This is of course, a general reading, but even still, it can help you work through issues, get inspired, and get on the right track.
Your card choice was YOUR intuition guiding you to the information you need the most.
Card #1 Fear
In a relationship: Don’t be afraid to take the next step in your relationship. Be honest with yourself, and ask, “what part of me am I holding back from my partner” Don’t be afraid to let love into your life fully, and don’t be afraid to trust. Love is what heals all the wounds on your heart. So going forward, live and love courageously. Don’t be afraid to show who you really are and don’t be afraid to take your relationship to the next level.
IF you are on the fence about a relationship being right for you, don’t be afraid to end it and part lovingly. That’s okay too. Don’t be afraid of the future.
On the verge of a relationship: Don’t be afraid to explore a possibility of a relationship with this person. Don’t feel afraid to let your true self show. They need to love you for who you are, so let your guard down, take off the mask, and show them the real you.
Currently single: What are you freaking waiting for? WHY aren’t you putting yourself out there more? Do not be afraid of what people think of you. Let your true self shine. You may have been burnt a few too many times, but don’t let that discourage you or cloud your feelings about love. Consider this a sign that you are ready to let love in again.
Card #2 Inspiration
In a relationship: Okay, so you may need a small amount of help getting the zing back into your relationship – that’s okay. Everything goes in cycles, sometimes you feel bored and trapped in the mundane, and other times, things are fantastic and exciting. Take some time to get inspired again and start appreciating your partner. Treat your relationship like it is new, and try to look at it from a different perspective. Understand that you can shake that ‘mundane’ vibe, by just appreciating your partner again, and looking at the relationship from a new perspective. You don’t have to do anything outrageous, you don’t even have to go out to a nice dinner, you just need to start small. Invest more time, and the inspiration will come back soon.
If you are currently on the verge of a new relationship: That inspired feeling you are feeling currently? That is good. That’s awesome, and this is probably a relationship worth pursuing. If you feel happy and inspired to live everyday, that is never a bad thing, no matter how this one works out 😉
Currently single: You’re starting to get back on track, you’re starting to head in a positive direction. Keep at it, and do what inspires you. When you concentrate on what inspires you, you are more likely to meet someone who is on your level. When you are happy, you are setting yourself up to meet someone who is on the same happy vibration. Like attracts like. All the while, you are doing what INSPIRES YOU. Keep persisting! You are building your dream and are on the path to meeting not just any person, but the right person for you.
Card #3 Withdrawal
In a relationship: Taking some time to pursue your own interests is a great idea right now. Go on a mini vacation without your significant other or go take a fun class or have a night with your friends. Maybe you want to work on a fun new project, so go do that. Whenever you separate and express who you are as an individual, you come back twice as strong in your relationship. You have fantastic new ideas and new perspectives to share – even if you just took a class or spent a few hours working on a project by yourself, that is still enriching who you are as a person. Take some time just for you. Your significant other is with you because they love YOU. Invest a little more time in yourself and you will have more to love to share with your partner.
On the verge of a relationship: If things with the person you are talking to have gone cold, it is time for you to concentrate on yourself again. You can be happy with yourself, and you really don’t *need* anyone. Having someone around is just an added bonus. Withdraw your attention for awhile and see what happens. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Currently single: You may need a little R&R right now. Rest and recover time. You WILL get through this time period. Maybe you’ve been feeling depressed, maybe you’re tired of the search, or maybe you just got out of a relationship. Read some inspiring books, go to the spa or the gym, relax for awhile. You don’t need to constantly search. You don’t need to give up either. You just need a mini time-out. You’ll be back to normal soon. Be gentle with yourself. Trust in divine timing.
No matter what situation you’re in, remember to love yourself and practice compassion.